Think about the last time you had absolutely nothing to do. No phone, no screen, no task waiting. If your instinct was to reach for something, anything, to fill the gap, you're in very good company. In a series of experiments where people were asked to sit alone for up to 15 minutes with only their thoughts, research published in the journal Science found that many participants disliked it so much that 67 percent of men and 25 percent of women chose to give themselves a mild electric shock they had earlier said was unpleasant, rather than simply sit quietly. One person pressed the button 190 times. We are, it seems, remarkably willing to do almost anything to escape being bored.
But what if we've been misreading the whole experience? Boredom feels like a dead end, yet a growing body of psychology and neuroscience suggests it's closer to a launchpad. Psychologist Sandi Mann, a senior lecturer at the University of Central Lancashire and author of The Upside of Downtime, describes boredom in an interview with TIME as "a search for neural stimulation that isn't satisfied," adding that "if we can't find that, our mind will create it." That last part is the quiet magic. When the outside world goes still, your inner world gets to work.
Here are nine hidden benefits of boredom, each grounded in real research, along with a few gentle ways you might let it work for you.
Before the list, here's a quick map of what's actually happening when you're bored, and one small way to invite each benefit into an ordinary day.